Helping a person in need through the context of a relationship is the most effective, dignifying way to minister to another person… and you will likely be surprised by the way that your own life is also enriched.
All “friend” volunteers go through a 2 hour orientation class. This training helps you understand the refugees’ situations: their needs, cultural taboos, how best to help, etc. You’ll need to complete a basic application while a background check is also performed to ensure the protection of the refugee.
Frequently Asked Questions:
- What is the expected level of commitment?
Ideally, we’d like to have the friend family meet their refugee at the airport and provide the first night’s meal. Then, plan on spending time once a week for 6 weeks with your refugee. Often times, relationships continue on indefinitely.
- What if my refugee asks me about something I don’t know, like social services programs, etc.?
As a friend, you are there to support and don’t need to have all the answers. If your refugee asks you a question that you don’t know (such as social services, etc.) you can refer them to WRC.
- After I go through the class, when will I be assigned a refugee?
Due to political and other reasons, refugees often come to America in groups so there is no way to exactly predict when you may be assigned a refugee. It could be within weeks, or it may be many months later. Often times, when a large group comes, WRC has to scramble to get them assigned a family so it’s best to have completed the orientation class and application.
- How will I know when I get a refugee and what if it’s bad timing?
After you have completed your orientation and application, you are put on a waiting list. When a refugee receives clearance, you’ll be notified. Often times there are only several days notice before they arrive. If there are circumstances that don’t allow you to take on the refugee at that time, you can pass on that opportunity and the next friend volunteer can be contacted. You will then be notified the next time a need arises to see if it fits with your schedule.
- Is this a good project for a small group?
It works best with one family being the official “friend”. Large groups can be difficult for the refugees due to their limited language issues, need for one point person to contact, etc. But certainly, helping your refugee network with your circle of friends can be an excellent way to connect to others.
- What if my refugee doesn’t speak English?
Many refugees speak some English already and they are being taught English at WRC. But nevertheless, communication will be a challenge. But speaking slowly, not using figures of speech and plenty of gestures will make for fun communication.
- Where will my refugee be settled?
The apartments that World Relief provides for refugees are typically in Albany Park (about a mile east of I90 on Lawrence Ave.) or Roger’s Park. (first Chicago neighborhood south of Evanston, within blocks of Lake Michigan.)
- What can I hope to benefit from this?
This opportunity will open your eyes and ears to the least, the last, and the lost from around the world, that have landed here in Chicago. You will learn about new cultures, which in and of itself can be a fascinating experience. Your compassion will grow as you help your refugee navigate new life in a foreign country. Your tenderness for the Lord will bloom as you see others through His eyes; those needing the touch of a loving, Christian.
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